鼓励孩子的话很多，要根据情况，例如，孩子考试回家会把试卷拿给你看，你要鼓励他，不管好不好，都要鼓励，可以说这次没有考好，我相信你下次会考好的。孩子会努力，因为你信任他。
孩子不认真吃饭 ，你可以用孩子喜欢看的动画片来教育他，鼓励孩子要想动画中的谁谁谁学习，孩子喜欢的人物。孩子会认真吃饭的。
要时时刻刻抓住机会鼓励孩子，但是不要说太多，说多了孩子会不听的。
答：答应他成绩有进步，给他奖励。进步不能要求过大，反而容易失去信心。可以考虑带他去旅游，或者给他买件想要的东西啊 相信十七岁大的孩子需要的更多应该是信任，要相信他自己会管理好自己的学习，给予他充分的尊重与信任，是这个蒙生独立思想年龄段的孩子最需要的一种外在力量，相信一个人在自己得到一种能力与力量的协力之下，好的学习习惯的养成也就不成问题了。 鼓励要说，但更要行动，那就是经常关心他的作业，但不是逼他做作业。凡是跟他好好讲道理，好好商量，多陪他一起开开心心的做他喜欢做的事情，多说些亲切是话，不一定非要语言，有些时候一个举动，一个表情就足以让他感觉得到你对他的支持与鼓励。 心与心的沟通
不要给孩子过多的压力
做孩子最好的朋友
对17岁的孩子，要少说教，多鼓励，常沟通，对有些问题要提出见意，供孩子参考。 建议您接触“赏识教育” 孩子的想象里很丰富
你只能给他提意见 但是意见要很有想象空间
让孩子自己去改变``` 我儿子今年17岁，高二。做妈妈的怎样说孩子，容易接受?谢谢!
人生总是跌跌碰碰才完美。没有人生来就是完美的，但是我们可以努力。所以无论你现状是如何，都要开开心心的过，快快乐乐的活。
钉子有两个长处：一个是“挤”劲，一个是“钻”劲。我们在学习上，也要提倡这种“钉子”精神，善于挤和钻。
不管什么享受都是会终止的，只有读书所带来的思想才能是永恒的，它可以受你思想的不断高级化而升级，所带来的并不是一个思想，而是多个。
爱学习，只有热爱学习的 爱充电的孩子才能完善自己、丰富自己、独立自己， 不世俗 不卑贱。爱劳动，懂得劳动的深刻价值，节约光荣浪费可耻。爱物质，适当地，但永远知道精神更重要。
无论你选择哪个角度透视青春，青春都是祖母绿，都是那样的玲珑剔透。
当你还不能对自己说今天学到了什么东西时，你就不要去睡觉。
爱读书是一种十全十美的享受;别的享受都有尽头。而读书给人的享受却是长久的。
我们降生在这多彩多姿繁华绚烂的世界上，唯一的目的就是好好活下去。活给自己看，也活给爱自己的人看，更要活给那些瞧不起自己的人看。
一个愚蠢的人犯下的错误也许能够轻松修正，但是一个绝顶聪明的人犯下的错误，也许连挽救的机会都没有!
★天才就是无止境刻苦勤奋的能力 －－卡莱尔
★聪明出于勤奋，天才在于积累 －－华罗庚
★勤劳一日，可得一夜安眠；勤劳一生，可得幸福长眠 －－达·芬奇（意大利）
★形成天才的决定因素应该是勤奋 －郭沫若
★你想成为幸福的人吗？但愿你首先学会吃得起苦 －－屠格涅夫
激励孩子学习的经典语句
To encourage children to learn words
1、你是最优秀的！你是最棒的！你是最好的！
1, you are the best! You are the best! You 're the best.
2、每一个成功者都有一个开始。勇于开始，才能找到成功的路。
2, each one has a successful start. The courage to begin to find a successful way.
3、一千个愿望，一千个计划，一千个决心，不如一个行动！
3, one thousand wishes, one thousand plans, one thousand determination, as well as an action!
4、世界会给那些有目标和远见的人让路。
In 4, the world will give those who have a goal and far-sighted.
5、造物之前，必先造人。
In 5, before the creator, they must first be made man.
6、与其临渊羡鱼，不如退而结网。
In 6, and for, rather than retreat and spin.
7、若不给自己设限，则人生中就没有限制你发挥的藩篱。
7, if not to put limits on yourself, but do not limit you play fences.
8、绊脚石乃是进身之阶。
In 8, Shi Nai is a stepping-stone to stumble.
9、即使爬到最高的山上，一次也只能脚踏实地地迈一步。
9, even climb the highest mountain, one can only stand on solid ground one step.
10、积极思考造成积极人生，消极思考造成消极人生。
10, a positive life thinking positive, negative thinking negatively life.
11、有事者，事竟成；破釜沉舟，百二秦关终归楚；苦心人，天不负；卧薪尝胆，三千越甲可吞吴！
11, something happens, things become; cut off all means of retreat, after resigning Qin Guan Chu; those who live day, sleep on the brushwood, three thousand; a can be more htun!
12、你的脸是为了呈现上帝赐给人类最贵重的礼物——微笑，一定要成为你幸福人生最大的资产。
12, your face is to show God gave mankind the most precious gift -- smile, must become your greatest asset.
13、只当观众的人永远领不到金牌。
In 13, when viewers will not receive the gold medal.
14、上帝只助自助者。
14, God only helps those who help themselves.
15、怠惰是无能的制造厂。
15, laziness is incompetent factory.
16、莫找借口失败，只找理由成功。（不为退步找理由，要为进步找方法）
In 16, no excuses for failure, only to find grounds for success. ( do not decline to find reasons to find a method, progress )
17、伟人之所以伟大，是因为他与别人共处逆境时，别人失去了信心，他却下决心实现自己的目标。
In 17, a great man is great, because he adversity coexistence with others, others have lost their confidence, he was determined to achieve their goals.
18、世上没有绝望的逆境，只有对逆境绝望的人。
18, there is no desperate adversity stress on, only desperate people.
19、回避现实的人，未来将更不理想。
19, avoid the real people, the future will be even more unsatisfactory.
20、当你感到悲哀痛苦时，最好是去学些什么东西。学习会使你永远立于不败之地。
In 20, when the pain you feel sad, it is best to learn what things. Learning will make you forever remain invincible.
21、伟人所达到并保持着的高处，并不是一飞就到的，而是他们在同伴们都睡着的时候，一步步艰辛地向上攀爬的。
21, great men reached and maintained by the height, not a fly on to, but they in companions were asleep, step by step to climb up the hard way.
22、世界上那些最容易的事情中，拖延时间最不费力。
In 22, the world's the most easy thing, the delay time of the effort.
23、坚韧是成功的一大要素，只要在门上敲得够久、够大声，终会把人唤醒的。
23, tenacity is a major success factor, as long as you knock at door long and loud enough, eventually people will wake up.
24、人之所以能，是相信能。
In 24, one is able to, is able to believe.
25、没有汗水，就没有成功的泪水。
In 25, no sweat, success without tears.
26、忍耐力较诸脑力，尤胜一筹。
26, tolerance is a mind, dominates.
27、环境不会改变的，只能改变的是自己。
27, the environment will not change, can only change is yourself.
28、每一发奋努力的背后，必有加倍的赏赐。
28, behind each of the strenuous efforts, there must be double reward.
29、如果你希望成功，以恒心为良友，以经验为参谋，以小心为兄弟，以希望为哨兵。
29, if you wish to succeed, use persistence as your good friend, experience as chief of staff, to care for the brother, and hope as your sentry.
30、未曾失败的人恐怕也未曾成功过。
30, not fear of failure have never been successful.
31、人生伟业的建立，不在能知，乃在能行。
31, life is great, not in knowledge, but in can.
32、挫折其实就是迈向成功所应缴的学费。
In 32, frustrated by the fact that success fees payable.
33、任何的限制，都是从自己的内心开始的。
33, any restrictions, are from his heart began.
34、忘掉失败，不过要牢记失败中的教训。
34, forget failure, but failure to remember the lessons.
35、不是境况造就人，而是人造就境况。
35, situation is not created, but created the situation.
36、含泪播种的人一定能含笑收获。
36, those who sow in tears will reap a smile.
37、靠山山会倒，靠水水会流；靠庙庙会塌，靠神神会跑；靠自己永远靠得牢！
37, the patron may rely on hill, water will flow; by Temple Temple collapses, God will run; to rely on their own never rely on fast!
38、愿望可以提升热忱，毅力可以磨平高山。
38, wish can enhance the enthusiasm, perseverance can be removed the mountains.
39、只要路是对的，就不怕路远。
In 39, as long as the road is right, that is far away.
40、自古成功在尝试。
40, since ancient times, success in the attempt.
41、当一个人先从自己的内心开始奋斗，他就是个有价值的人。
In 41, when a person first from his heart began to struggle, he is a man of value.
42、每一日你所付出的代价都比前一日高，因为你的生命又消短了一天，所以每一日你都要更积极。
42, every day the price you pay more than in the previous Nikko, because your life and eliminate short a day every day, so you should be more active.
43、一个人最大的破产是绝望，最大的资产是希望。
In 43, one of the largest bankruptcy is despair, the greatest asset is hope.
44、行动是成功的阶梯，行动越多，登得越高。
44, action is the ladder of success, more action, the higher board.
45、环境永远不会十全十美，消极的人受环境控制，积极的人却控制环境。
45, the environment is never perfect, negative people affected by environmental control, active people are control environment.
46、事实上，成功仅代表了你努力的1%，成功是99%失败的结果。
46, in fact, success represents only you work hard1%, success is failure of 99% results.
47、把每一件简单的事做好，就不简单了；把每一件平凡的事完成，就不平凡了！
47, every one simple thing to do, is not simple; each common thing, not ordinary!
48、昨晚多几分钟的预习准备，今天上课少几十分钟的烦恼。
48, last night more than a few minutes of preparation, few tens of minutes to class today.
49、“人”的结构是相互支撑，“众”人的集体荣誉需要每个人的参与。
49," " the structure is mutual support," the" people 's collective honor needs everyone's participation.
50、学习要进步,请选择这样的“三心二意”：信心、恒心、决心；愿意、乐意。
50, learning to be, please select the" half-hearted": confidence, perseverance, determination, willing to.
51、没有汗水,你就没有成功的泪水.
In 51, no sweat, you success without tears.
52、山峰,只有对攀登它而不是仰视它的人来说才有真正意义.
52, mountains, only to climb it and not look up it is true.
53、人生舞台的大幕随时都可以拉开,关键你是选择表演,还是选择躲避.
The 53stage of life, the curtain can always open, is the key to your choice of performing, or choose to avoid.
54、能把在你面前行走的机会抓住,十有八-九你就会成功.
54, can put in front of you walking the chance to catch, ten eight - nine you will succeed.
55、平凡的脚步也可以走完伟大的行程.
55, ordinary steps can also go through great trip.
56、世上没有任何事情比下决心、立即行动更为重要，更有效果。
56, there is no things than determined, immediate action is more important, more effective.
57、人的一生，可以有所作为的时机只有一次，那就是现在。
57, human life, can dosomethinpreviouslyunreleased opportunity only once, it is now.
58、想得好是聪明，计划得好更聪明，做得好是最聪明又最好。
The 58, want to have good is a wise, good planning more intelligent, well done is the brightest and best.
59、成功者永不放弃，放弃者永不成功！
59, successful people never give up, never give up success!
60、没有比你更聪明的，只有比你更努力的！
In 60, no more intelligent than you, only harder than you!
61. 三思而后行的人，很少会做错事情。
61look before you leap person, seldom do something wrong.
62. 观察走在你前面的人，看看他为何领先，学习他的做法。
The 62observation you walk in front of people, have a look why he is leading, his approach.
63. 相信你做得到，你一定会做到。
63I believe you do, you must do it.
64. 不断告诉自己某一件事，即使不是真的，最后也会让自己相信。
64keep telling yourself a matter, if not really, finally allowed myself believe.
65. 每一次都尽力超越上次的表现，很快你就会超越周遭的人。
65every time always exceed previous performance, and soon you will go beyond the people around.
66. 如果你不知道你自己的一生要的是什么，你还想得到什么？
66If you do not know your own life to what is, what you want to be?
67. 智者除了有所为，还能有所不为。
67 wise in addition to, but also not to do something.
68. 如果你不会知道自己要什么，别说你没有机会。
68 If you don't know what you want, not to mention your chance.
69. 勇敢的承认自己不知道的事情，才能学习并进步。
69 bravely admit that you do not know, can learn and progress.
